By: Merloze Tilme
Ruled by the Moon and by emotions
Birthstone: Pearls and moonstone
Location to thrive: Near water
Cancer is the fourth sign of the zodiac
Have you ever met a Cancer girl? Are you a bit confused? You’re not alone! Is she detached, cheerful, or gloomy? She is all the above. These are only a few of her mood swings. Since her ruler is the moon;She takes women’s intuition even further. She is very moody at times but her basic personality traits stay the same. She is loyal, intuitive, cautious, imaginative, protective,conservative, nurturing, sensitive, and emotional. The problem is all these wonderful traits are hidden behind a hard shell of coldness. This is what makes her so seductive, appealing, and mysterious all at the same time. Her mood swings makes her a very complex being, but since she is good in every other way, one should feel lucky to cross paths with this water creäture.
She does this to avoid hurt from the big cruel world; Her crabby shell protects her from rejection and criticism.
There are days when she would be right in the center of a group of friends laughing and having fun being outrageous. However, there are also days when she will retreat into her shell and refuse to socialize. Not even close friends and family members will be able to approach her when she is such a mood. It is actually very difficult to guess what is going inside her mind. On the other hand, she is very intuitive and can read the mind of the those around her very easily. Because of this, Cancer woman is often called an “agony aunt,” as she can gently persuade people to tell their problems and can also help them to find solutions.
A Cancer woman is fragile when her heart is concerned. She is a warrior in every other way. She will also be very protective of her children and make them feel completely secure; her children will be the center of her universe.
The Cancer woman is careful about who she gives her heart to, because once she commits, she really gives her all. This woman is truly feminine, of all the signs, Cancer is the most nurturing and protective of those close to her. Her spouse and her children always comes first; she often put her family interests ahead of hers.
The cancer girl rarely makes the first move, because she only knows how to move sideways and backwards. She is very shy, insecure and will need your constant reassurance. Even if she is a supermodel, the current Miss Universe or has men drooling over her all the time, it is your attention she craves. She will want reassurance time and again; that she is still desirable and you still need her.
The Cancer woman needs to feel emotionally close to her lover, in tune with what he is thinking and feeling to feel fulfilled and happy in a relationship. Her ruling planet is the moon, which makes women of this zodiac sign highly feminine and seductive.
When she senses danger to her home or those close to her; a Cancer woman can become quite ruthless. In turn, hurt or offend her and you could be view as an enemy. It’s not likely that she will ever forget a face.
How to know if a Cancer woman loves you?
Cancer is a naturally nurturing sign. If they care, then they tend to show it fairly obviously and readily. Hugs, questions about your day, troubles, worries, picking up on your moods etc are a good indicator. On the other side of things, withdrawing if offended or hurt is an equally good indicator. If they care about someone they become very easily offended by that person. http://www.compatible-astrology.com/cancer-woman.html
What not to say to a Cancer women
Like other emotional signs, Cancers are a bit insecure. Unless you want to create a lot of work for yourself repairing the damage, then jokes and insensitive comments regarding her or another woman’s attractiveness are often best avoided. Unlike the women of some other signs, this is a lady and not “one of the boys!” http://www.compatible-astrology.com/cancer-woman